Sexuality rarely works like that. You know, people really get on their high horse when it comes to using condoms. As long as you’re protecting yourself against stds and pregnancy, you can do it however it feels right to you (there’s no right or wrong way to have sex for the first time). The average age of first (heterosexual) intercourse is 16 in the uk.
Most helpful girl
When you know you’re finally going to have sex, most people skip over all the other stuff to get to the main event. Don’t do anything surprising.